Please Listen sir/Ma,
That a Relationship didn't end in Marriage doesn't mean it FAILED .
You may have just dodged a bullet.
That a Relationship ended in Marriage doesn't mean it SUCCEEDED.
You may have just shot yourself in the leg and entered a bad marriage God didn't want you in.
Not every Relationship must end in Marriage, please don't ignore the red flags, your unsettled inner peace, don't let love blind your eyes from seeing things clearly & don't force it to work when it's obviously not working, don't apply Faith for something that God is not involved in. There's is huge difference between what you deserve and what you want. If your emotions is stronger than your understanding, you will settle for what you want instead of what you deserve.
And not every Relationship must end in a break up, check yourself well. Sometimes evaluate yourself. You may be the problem.
Sometimes, we are the ones that make a Relationship not to end in Marriage, because of our toxic behaviors/characters, and Sometimes we are the ones that force a Relationship to end in Marriage because of our stubbornness to listen to wise counsel, the fear of starting all over again, the stupid excuse of it's not easy to move on, what will people say and spiritual blindness.
Always remember that; The pain of dating and marrying the wrong person is worse than your present fear of getting too old before marriage. If you date and marry who you shouldn't marry, you'll join the list of those who are already suffering inside marriage.
It is not a Success just because it ended the way you wanted it to end.
It is a success because it ended the way God wanted it to End.
We as believers must be sensitive and discerning.
If God WANTED it to end in Marriage, and it didn't, it failed.
If God DIDN'T want it to end in Marriage, and it did, it failed.
Some people are in better Marriages today because of a failed Relationship in the past and vice versa.
BE LED
Peter D'Rock.